How does a reverse mortgage work in California?
Instead of you paying the lender each month, the lender advances money to you, and the balance grows over time as interest and fees are added. Nothing is due while a borrower still lives in the home as their principal residence and keeps up the property charges.
You can usually take the money as a lump sum, a line of credit, monthly advances, or a combination. The structure you choose changes how the balance grows, which is one of the more consequential decisions in the whole process.
California layers extra protection on the federal rules. You must complete counselling with a HUD-approved counsellor before anything else, and a lender may not take your application until at least seven days after that session. You also receive a plain language worksheet of the questions to consider before proceeding.
What are the three types of reverse mortgage?
The Home Equity Conversion Mortgage is the FHA-insured version and the one most people mean. It is non-recourse, it follows HUD rules, and the amount available is limited by the FHA lending limit regardless of how much your home is worth.
Proprietary reverse mortgages, often called jumbo reverse mortgages, are private products designed for higher value homes. They matter in California, where many homes are worth more than the FHA limit allows a HECM to reach. They are not FHA-insured, so the protections and costs differ and deserve a close read.
Single purpose reverse mortgages are offered by some state or local agencies and non-profits for one stated use, such as property taxes or repairs. They are the least expensive and the least flexible, and availability varies by county.
What do I need to qualify?
For a HECM the youngest borrower is generally 62 or older, the home is your principal residence, and you hold substantial equity. Lenders also run a financial assessment to confirm you can keep paying taxes and insurance.
The amount available depends on age, the home’s value and current interest rates. Older borrowers with more equity generally have access to more. An existing mortgage does not rule you out, but it must be paid off from the proceeds at closing.
What about condominiums and a younger spouse?
Condominiums are the most common eligibility surprise. For a HECM the project generally needs FHA approval, though single unit approval is possible for some units in projects that are not approved as a whole. Where neither route works, a proprietary reverse mortgage is sometimes still available.
If one spouse is under 62, they can usually be named as an eligible non-borrowing spouse. Done correctly, that allows them to remain in the home after the borrowing spouse dies, provided the property charges are kept current and the home stays their residence. Done carelessly, it is how people lose a home. This is the detail to slow down on.
What are the ongoing obligations, and can I get out of one?
Property taxes, homeowners insurance, any HOA dues and reasonable maintenance remain yours. The home must stay your principal residence; an extended absence can trigger repayment. Falling behind on taxes or insurance is the most common way a reverse mortgage goes wrong, and it is entirely avoidable.
You are not locked in. You can repay the balance at any time, typically by selling the home or refinancing into another loan, and there is a right to cancel shortly after closing. The practical question is whether the proceeds still cover the balance, which is why the exit is worth modelling before you enter.
What happens to my heirs, or in a divorce?
When the loan comes due, heirs can repay the balance and keep the home, sell the home and keep any remaining equity, or hand the property back. FHA-insured reverse mortgages are non-recourse, meaning the debt repaid from the property is capped at its value.
In a divorce, the loan follows the home rather than the marriage. If one spouse keeps the house and both are borrowers, the loan usually has to be restructured or repaid. California is a community property state, so the property settlement and the loan need to be worked through together rather than in sequence.
Telling your family before rather than after is the single kindest thing you can do here.
What are the alternatives?
Downsizing frees equity outright and often lowers running costs, though in California a long held home can carry a property tax basis worth thinking hard about before giving it up. A traditional refinance or home equity line of credit can be cheaper if you can comfortably make payments. Doing nothing is also a legitimate choice.
Compare the options on the same page, over the same time horizon, before deciding. A reverse mortgage looks very different next to its real alternatives than it does on its own.
Ed’s take
I will not sell you a reverse mortgage. I will help you decide whether it fits, and I have talked plenty of people out of one because downsizing or simply staying put served them better.
The two things I slow people down on are a spouse under 62 and a condominium, because those are where the damage happens. Everything else is arithmetic.
The conversation I insist on having is about the next ten years, not the product. Where do you want to live, who is nearby, what does the house cost you to keep. Answer that and the financing question mostly answers itself.